When every man you know is an asshole pic.twitter.com/XZuVajwaL3— 𝑴𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒓𝑱𝒂𝒚𝑬𝒎 R.I.P. (@MisterJayEm) October 3, 2018
I went to my share of bars when I was young. I never got into a bar fight unless you count breaking up one or two fights a night when I worked at a large club. Indoors and outdoors, the place probably held about 7oo customers. Far more than that would pass through in a night. It was huge. The overwhelming majority of customers were in their 20s. Out of that crowd, maybe 1 out of a couple of hundred would get into a fight. I bet many who got into fights had a habit of getting into bar fights.
I haven't surveyed old friends, but I never saw any of them get into bar fights. If you and every one of your friends has been in a bar fight, it says more about you than it says about acceptable conduct for men.